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Part 9: The Defining Moment Arrives

Do it. That’s all there is to this step. Oh, there’s more stuff to do, but that comes after. In the meantime, you really have run out of excuses. You’ve marshaled your resources, you’ve come up with a...

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how to make sense of a chaotic world

Framing Ferguson It’s a troubling time in America. More than usual. The events in Ferguson Missouri have affected not just the national dialogue on racism, on police, on the use of force, the right to...

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Defining Moment, Part 13: Final Evaluations

The Consequence Hero Everybody, sooner or later, sits down to a banquet of consequences. – Robert Louis Stevenson It’s one of the key principles of personal development, set down everyone from...

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BONUS POST: Review of Chris Guillebeau’s “The Happiness of Pursuit”

A Dangerous Book About Extraordinary Lives, Including Yours. As a fellow writer on topics of personal development, I opened “The Happiness of Pursuit” with a healthy dose of skepticism. I was expecting...

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The Defining Moment: Courage Overcomes Expectations

Not Much Left There’s really only a few last things to say now that you’ve figured out your Defining Moment, found a way to make it happen, and analyzed the results. You know now one of two things:...

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Defining Moment: the Defined Life

“One more thing…” – Steve Jobs It may be obvious, but it bears saying: unlike the Highlander, when it comes to the Defining Moment there can be more than one. If you’ve tried this process on one of...

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living the life you want to remember

Instant Dilemma; Just Add Text Every once in a while you get faced with an issue that seems completely unsolvable, until something changes to make it eminently solvable. Here’s how the timeline went:...

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enjoy the mystery

“Spoilers!” – Riversong Rosebud is his sled. Bruce Willis is a ghost. The Titanic hits an iceberg and sinks. For those who haven’t seen the movies that the first two spoilers refer to, I apologize. If...

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don’t just survive; flourish!

With Flourish & Panache… Flourishing means getting on with the things that are important for you to do, exercising your capacities, actively trying to ‘realize’ what you care about and bring it...

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a life of dignity

A Dignified About-Face When I was a kid, we had a cat named Dignity. We named him that, Mom said, “…because he had none.” That was certainly the case as a kitten, but as he grew older, like all cats,...

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Failure is Valuable Experience

Tangled Up & You My partner made a joke about me recently, pointing out how some of the ways you write the letter “G” could look like a circular arrow. We decided if I was an old-school rancher, my...

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the key to finding meaningful work

The Stupid Gender Work operates like an eraser on chance or luck. – Emi Kolawole “Fortune favors the prepared mind.” “Make your own luck.” “Never tell me the odds.” Ok, the last one is more Han Solo...

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dance and play and work

Starman Dances with the Universe A while back when we were talking about mantras, I mentioned this as one of my own that has stood the test of time. It’s helpful in times of chaos to find the things...

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the genuine path to success

The Hard Truth This is not going to be one of those comforting, let’s-all-be-happy posts. Fair warning. If you’re already having a rough day, this is not the post to read. Probably a better idea to...

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creating a bit of nowhere to know where you are

Know-Where Man Location is a funny thing these days. Many of our devices are location-aware, so I can tell my phone “Remind me to take in the car seat when I get home” and it will actually wait until...

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beware the coercion of malls

Gruen Pains It was back in the mid 90’s when I first noticed it. After a lot of years of relative poverty and the busy-ness of both co- and single-parenting, I decided to take them on one of the...

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The 5 Elements of a Great Life

The Narrative Recipe Recently I read an excellent article about the author Ursula K. Leguin. She spoke of “five principal elements,” which must “work in one insoluble unitary movement” in order to...

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5 Things Not To Do When Life Sucks (& 1 Thing To)

Happy Holidaze! …or not. For many people, your erstwhile author included, the combination of winter cold and the societal expectations of the holiday season can be pretty depressing, or stressful, or...

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check your positivity ratio

How’s Your Day? Quick, off the top of your head: has it been a mostly positive day? Or a mostly negative one? If you’re like me, you may be surprised at the results. I was thinking I was having a...

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the secret to a meaningful life

The last few days have been spent traveling some of the bleak roads of the midwest in midwinter on our way to the funeral of my partner’s grandmother. Like most family gatherings of this kind, it was a...

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